Family Structure and Functioning

Family Structure and Functioning

In Japan, family plays a significant part in how you identify yourself. For instance, your family name comes before your first name. It is customary to address others by their family name. This can get confusing in certain situations, but it reflects a form of respect in Japanese culture. For example, my Japanese name is Yukiko, and my Japanese family name is Konishi, but you wouldn’t refer to me as Yukiko; you would refer to me as Konishi-san. The family name is very important in Japan, and families in Japan are seen as a unit, not an individual, so to do something disgraceful would be equivalent to tarnishing the family name.

The order of names in Japan

A traditional family in Japan is almost always multi-generational. With the family being multi-generational, or also known as an extended family, the grandparents are expected to provide childcare and wisdom to the children while the father continues to work and brings home food for the mother to cook. In later life, when the children are older, they have the responsibility to take care of their grandparents, alongside the mother, who is responsible for taking care of both the children and the grandparents. Taking care of the elders is highly looked up to. The mother takes on a very important role in nurturing the children and teaching/helping the kids with everyday activities. But essentially, what is taught to children? Patience is the most important virtue in Japanese culture, to wait your turn is super important. This can be seen through enduring emotions, not asking questions, and speaking when spoken to.  

Multigenerational family in Japan


So how many children are in each family? According to Japaneo’s Article published in March 2025, the approximate fertility rate to maintain the population is 2.1, but the current fertility rate is 1.3 in 2023. The reasons behind the decrease in fertility rate are consistent with multiple reasons, including an increase in medical expenses, school closures, and consolidations, due to this promoting migration and developing telework are a huge part of the current impacts of low birth rates in Japan. Also, it’s important to note that in Japan, elders are more superior to the younger generations. This contributes to supporting older adults with the sustainability of the pension systems. This goes back to an earlier section of this blog where I mentioned how taking care of elderly people is very important and seen as a moral duty.

When we think about child-rearing practices of gender roles in the Japanese culture, how it is taught is usually through modeling. From a young age, we are taught that fathers go to work while mothers stay and take care of the family. This can be different in many different situations of how the family is structured, but the traditional family is closely seen as the mother staying home and being the nurturing factor, while the father goes out and works. In today's age, I see plenty of different families who do not have kids, and both partners work individually and come together after work, which is also a huge factor in why the fertility rate is declining; the more women work full-time jobs, the more childbirth is delayed and ultimately results in the low birthrates talked about above. This is another common form of family in today’s Japanese culture.

Japan's declining birthrate

This leads us to the fact that family structures in Japan have shifted dramatically from the multi-generational household talked about at the very beginning. Today, we can see that many families have become nuclear, so removing the grandparents from the picture. Unfortunately, Japan has the highest rates for single-person households in the world; today's current financial burdens play a huge part in nuclear families or single-person households.

Nuclear family in Japan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

References

Anderson, M. (2024, September 29). How many children does the average Japanese household have? - Mike Gravel. Mike Gravel. https://www.mikegravel.org/how-many-children-does-the-average-japanese-household-have/

Chen, M.-L. (2024, November 15). In Japan, more and more homes house only one person. EurasiaTimes. https://www.eurasiatimes.org/en/in-japan-more-and-more-homes-house-only-one-person/

JapaNEO. (2025, March 3). Japan’s Declining Birthrate: Causes, Impacts, and Solutions. JapaNEO; Blogger. https://www.japaneo.org/2025/03/japans-declining-birthrate-causes-impacts-solutions.html

Multi-generational households - (History of Japan) - Vocab, Definition, Explanations | Fiveable. (2025). Fiveable.me. https://fiveable.me/key-terms/history-japan/multi-generational-households

Scroope, C. (2021). Japanese Culture - Family. Cultural Atlas; Mosaica. https://culturalatlas.sbs.com.au/japanese-culture/japanese-culture-family

 

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